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howpeculeah:

Just gonna put this here because in any discussion about rape this seems to be frequently overlooked and it is sort of fundamental.

howpeculeah:

Just gonna put this here because in any discussion about rape this seems to be frequently overlooked and it is sort of fundamental.

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sixpenceee:

This is glorious and even thought it doesn’t fit in the range of all the paranormal, creepy and science I usually post, I MUST share

It works like this: You tell Kitestring that you’re in a dangerous place or situation, and give it a time frame of when to check in on you. If you don’t reply back when it checks your status, it’ll alert your emergency contacts with a custom message you set up.

It doesn’t require you to touch anything (like bSafe) or shake your phone (like Nirbhaya) to send the distress signal. Kitestring is smarter, because it doesn’t need an action to alert people, it needs inaction.

MORE INFORMATION

I really like the idea of this app and I think it’s very useful and will definitely cut down on response time and I know it will definitely make me feel safer going places alone late at night, but the headline really bothers me. This is not a “prevention” tool. If Kitestring had existed when her friend was being raped, and her friend didn’t respond, that would mean the rape had already been or was in the process of happening. All the app does is ensure your friends know that *something* happened and to get to you quickly in the aftermath to help. I would guess in some cases, your friends would interrupt the crime, but depending on the amount of time it takes you to get to your friend’s location, that’s not necessarily going to be the case. :( 

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New research shows 0.6% of rape allegations are false.

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jadelyn:

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and for those interested, you can find the report HERE

Just in case any dudebros are unclear on what this means: it means that your buddy who totally just had some bitch trying to ruin his life by accusing him of rape…almost certainly actually did rape her.  

Just keep that in mind.

99.4% are real.

(Source: handsome--gretel)

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"If owning a gun and knowing how to use it worked, the military would be the safest place for a woman. It’s not.

If women covering up their bodies worked, Afghanistan would have a lower rate of sexual assault than Polynesia. It doesn’t.

If not drinking alcohol worked, children would not be raped. They are.

If your advice to a woman to avoid rape is to be the most modestly dressed, soberest and first to go home, you may as well add “so the rapist will choose someone else”.

If your response to hearing a woman has been raped is “she didn’t have to go to that bar/nightclub/party” you are saying that you want bars, nightclubs and parties to have no women in them. Unless you want the women to show up, but wear kaftans and drink orange juice. Good luck selling either of those options to your friends.

Or you could just be honest and say that you don’t want less rape, you want (even) less prosecution of rapists."
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"

So here’s the real reason that rape jokes are troubled territory -

Because rape victims say so.

They get to say that. They get to feel that way. On this, they get to set the cultural rules.

It’s not about right or wrong, or logic versus emotion, or arguments of over sensitivity or hypocrisy - you have the free speech to make whatever jokes you want or talk about rape in whatever way you feel is illuminating. But they get to be upset about it. And call you on it. And be hurt by it.

But consider this:

You get to not be a rape victim.

They, however, are not afforded that luxury. Ever again.

"

Chuck Wendig (via vickiexz)

#some real talk

(via austinimus)

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What kind of world do we live in when young men are so proud of violating unconscious girls that they pass proof around to their friends? It’s the same kind of world in which being labeled a slut comes with such torturous social repercussions that suicide is preferable to enduring them. As a woman named Sara Erdmann so aptly tweeted to me, “I will never understand why it is more shameful to be raped than to be a rapist.”

And yet it is: so much so that young men seem to think there’s nothing wrong with—and maybe something hilarious about—sharing pictures of themselves raping young women. And why not? Their friends will defend them, as they did in Steubenville, tweeting that the young woman was “asking for it” and that the boys were being unfairly targeted.

Women and girls are the ones expected to carry the shame of the sexual crimes perpetrated against them. And that shame is a tremendous load to bear, because once you’re labeled a slut, empathy and compassion go out the window. The word is more than a slur—it’s a designation.

"
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TW: Rape, Rape Culture. The Steubenville Defense Will Center on Date Rape Not Existing

Attorney Walter Madison: “She didn’t affirmatively say no… The person who is the accuser here is silent just as she was that night, and that’s because there was consent.

This is one of the most despicable quotes I’ve ever read.

(Source: thebisweptualbisexual)

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New Mexico Bill Would Criminalize Abortions After Rape As 'Tampering With Evidence'

If the writers of this bill consider the fetus a person and therefore worthy of protection under the law…can a person really be “evidence”? Or is the fetus then considered a “witness”? Because I’m pretty sure fetuses can’t swear in on a bible. And if you make a fetus “evidence” then it’s not really a person, is it? It’s a thing.

UGH. People are idiots and this is one of the worst things I have ever heard, ever. Top 5 at least. 

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comedycentral:

Do I even need to tell you to click the gif and watch Stephen Colbert’s brilliant coverage of the latest in a long line of recent GOP rape comments? I do? Okay, click it, dummy!

BOOM.

comedycentral:

Do I even need to tell you to click the gif and watch Stephen Colbert’s brilliant coverage of the latest in a long line of recent GOP rape comments? I do? Okay, click it, dummy!

BOOM.

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upworthy:

Todd Akin can’t figure out what an actual apology should look like. Luckily, we’re here to help.Click here to see the original and a bigger version of our remix.

upworthy:

Todd Akin can’t figure out what an actual apology should look like. Luckily, we’re here to help.

Click here to see the original and a bigger version of our remix.

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"Am I arguing that girls and women shouldn’t be held responsible for their behaviour? Not at all. If a woman drinks to excess, then falls over in the street, loses her wallet and vomits all over her shirt, she has only herself to blame. But rape is not a consequence of getting drunk. It’s a consequence of a man deciding to rape someone."
Emily Maguire, Princesses & Pornstars: Sex, Power, Identity (via isistiberiuscat)
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